The View From My Knees

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A longtime reader, Connor, recently sent me a question that I thought the rest of you may find interesting. Not having a lot of personal experience with this issue, I could only give my gut feeling as advice. Luckily, though, I have a few friends in the sex industry that could offer more qualified advice. I’m sure Connor would love to have advice from any of you, as well, whether you have experience in this industry or just a hunch you’d like to share.

Hey, Misty. I’d like your thoughts on something. I’ve thought about seeing an escort, as I’ve been going through some frustrations with the opposite sex. I’d be interested in voyeuristic stuff like more explicit strip shows, erotic massages with happy endings, or even seeing her have sex with a guy (kind of like when I heard you and Fingers). My thing is, I won’t be able to have sex with her. I’m a blood donor, and the blood center has a rule that you can’t donate for a while if you pay for sex, regardless of if a condom was used; and “sex” also includes oral and anal. (Strict rule, but that’s the name of the game.) I’m worried that if the escort asks why I don’t want to have sex with her, and I give this answer, I’ll come across as insensitive or insulting. What do you think? I do want to have some sort of activity with a woman, but donating blood is important to me, too. Should I instead settle for a stripper service, like the girls that perform for bachelor parties, and leave the more intimate activities for another day, whenever that will be?

Thanks, Connor

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